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agnes77 -> Посвојување - како да се соочите со неуспехот (17.11.2010 18:19:59)
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Некогаш постапки за посвпјување завршува лошо. На веб може да се најде многу користни совети.
(Палешка те молам за превод)
Failed adoptions can be devastating to a hopeful adoptive couple. Even though the hopeful adoptive parents know that they have no legal right to parent the child, the child has grown in their hearts, and they already love the child deeply. A failed adoption is a very real loss that needs to be grieved.
- Allow your friends to help you.
- Let your partner grieve in his own way.
Though your husband may not break down in tears five times a day, don''''t underestimate his pain. Do not expect him to embrace his male friends and collapse into sobs.
- Seek closure.
Examine what you have really lost and what you still need to move forward. Some couples box up the toys, put away the stroller, and repaint the baby room immediately. Others make minor alt_erations and prepare for the next go around.
http://hoping.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/failed-adoption
http://library.adoption.com/articles/coping-with-a-failed-adoption.html
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